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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:03:59 GMT--><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:rss="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:cc="http://web.resource.org/cc/"><rss:channel rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/"><rss:title>Creative Connecting Blog</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/</rss:link><rss:description></rss:description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><dc:date>2010-03-12T02:03:59Z</dc:date><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://www.squarespace.com/">Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</admin:generatorAgent><rss:items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/3/10/why-im-crazy-for-twitter.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/17/moving-from-informing-to-sharing-your-passion.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/8/rejecting-the-single-story.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/4/pr-skills-101-1-engage-your-audience-with-an-emotional-hook.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/1/19/all-amazingly-at-our-fingertips-if-were-ready-to-reach-out.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/1/9/what-are-you-proud-of.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/12/18/rediscovering-fun.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/12/17/the-challenging-art-of-wordsmithing.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/11/25/graceful-grateful-creative-thinking.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/11/24/what-im-thankful-for-balance-adventure-relaxtion-oh-my.html"/></rdf:Seq></rss:items></rss:channel><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/3/10/why-im-crazy-for-twitter.html"><rss:title>Why I'm Crazy for Twitter</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/3/10/why-im-crazy-for-twitter.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-03-10T16:08:28Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Green Living Inhabitat Melissa Balmer Social Media Twitter social media</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.melissabalmer.com/storage/840590_blog.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1268237852757" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Not only can the concept of social media be a bit overwhelming for small business owners, but choosing which social media outlet to dip your toe into the water with can be enough to have many people running for the hills with confusion and dread.</p>
<p>It can all feel like a bit much without a clear understanding of what social media makes possible for you and your business. So I've decided to share a few reasons why I love <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" href="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" target="_blank">Twitter</a></strong> so much and why it's a great idea for you to check it out.</p>
<p>First let me share with you that I've been online blogging and using social media for ten years. I now spend the majority of my social media time on two of the giants, Facebook and Twitter,<strong> but it's on Twitter that my business minded social media world has expanded in the most fascinating and fruitful ways</strong>. I am not critisizing Facebook in any way, I love it, there are just significant differences in the way the two sites are set up.</p>
<p>Facebook is geared to help you find and connect <em>with people you may already know</em>, or be slightly acquainted with - even if it's from twenty years ago. Facebook is permission based, and for me it is the perfect tool for keeping up with family, friends and my local community of Long Beach California. But four or five updates and shared links from friends on Facebook and my screen is filled.</p>
<p>I use Twitter, on the other hand, to keep up with subjects I'm interested for my clients, to promote my clients to those interested in their expertise, and to keep in touch with subjects and sources of interest for me from around the world.</p>
<p><strong>Think of Twitter as a constantly updating networking tool extraordinair that you focus only what you're interested in.</strong></p>
<p>I don't follow my friends on <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" href="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" target="_blank">Twitter</a></strong> (unless we're interested in the same subjects), and I don't follow anyone who simply posts what they ate for breakfast, what they bought at the store, or the movie they want to watch tonight. My categories and criteria are focused on:</p>
<p>Health &amp; nutrition experts (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/smnutritionist" href="http://twitter.com/smnutritionist" target="_blank">@smnutritionist</a></strong>), social media experts (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/mashable" href="http://twitter.com/mashable" target="_blank">@mashable</a></strong>), focused tech media (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/VentureBeat" href="http://twitter.com/VentureBeat" target="_blank">@venturebeat</a></strong>), creativity coaches (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/starshyne" href="http://twitter.com/starshyne" target="_blank">@starshyne</a></strong>), greener living experts (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/alexismadrigal" href="http://twitter.com/alexismadrigal" target="_blank">@alexismadrigal</a></strong>), bicycle advocates &amp; experts (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/bikecommutenews" href="http://twitter.com/bikecommutenews" target="_blank">@bikecommutenews</a></strong>), design innovators (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/inhabitat" href="http://twitter.com/inhabitat" target="_blank">@inhabitat</a></strong>), favorite news &amp; media sources (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/TIME" href="http://twitter.com/TIME" target="_blank">@time</a></strong>), and authors, agents &amp; publishing houses (i.e. <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/janetgoldstein" href="http://twitter.com/janetgoldstein" target="_blank">@janetgoldstein</a></strong>).</p>
<p>I currently follow 331 people and organizations, and am followed by 417 (these numbers are constantly in flux).</p>
<p>I don't know about you, but I don't have the time to read every magazine and newspaper I'm interested in every day, nor can I keep up with 417 people directly via email directly. Twitter allows me, in a sense, to do both.</p>
<p>Via Twitter I have placed a client on KCET (our local PBS station) and other outlets, introduced clients to influential writers that are difficult to reach by other methods, booked clients as guest bloggers on websites with large followings, increased my clients' social media presence and website traffic, kept up on the very latest news for the industries I'm interested in, and introduced clients to the movers and shakers in their own and complimentary industries that are really important to know about.</p>
<p><strong>Twitter moves at a fast and furious pace</strong>. <strong>It is a ticker tape of newsfeeds you focus on what you want to focus on.</strong> It is also set up for updates of only 140 characters at a time and just your one small photo is included (space is so precious that an industry has sprouted up just to create "mini" links for websites whose links are too long to fit in the 140 characters).This means that I can see ten updates on my computer screen at a time, and because so many items are "retweeted" (or reposted), I can keep in the loop by checking in with it several times a day - <em>no I don't watch it 24/7.</em></p>
<p>Like Facebook Twitter is free, but initially Twitter takes more time investment to set up because you start with a blank canvas. Twitter isn't set up to "suggest" friends to you the way Facebook is, neither does it pull possible friends from your email list, but once you get going the connections you want to make come quickly because of the "retweets" updates that people repost from someone else.</p>
<p><strong>Think of it as a giant six degrees of separation for the entire world. What subjects are you most interested in? With Twitter you can use "hashtags" (i.e. #LongBeach, #GreenLiving) to find others interested in the same subjects.<br /></strong></p>
<p>In a nutshell Twitter is where I go to find news and bits of information I just don't have the time to track down for myself, and it puts me in touch with like minded people from around the world who I can personally connect with and send a direct note to if I like (only the most popular folk don't allow direct messages, i.e. best selling authors, celebrities, top journalists etc.), or we can have a conversation in public on our Twitter feeds.</p>
<p>Unlike Facebook with Twitter you can "follow" just about anyone who is on Twitter - but it doesn't mean they're going to automatically follow you. For example, I follow Anderson Cooper, best selling fantasy author Neil Gaiman (who wrote Coraline), and Fast Company Magazine - none of whom are going to follow me right now - note I say <em>right now</em>, I'm optimistic.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/17/moving-from-informing-to-sharing-your-passion.html"><rss:title>Moving From Informing to Sharing Your Passion</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/17/moving-from-informing-to-sharing-your-passion.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-02-18T02:08:23Z</dc:date><dc:subject>April Hamilton Creating an Emotional Hook Gretchen Rubin Public Relations &amp; Marketing The Happiness Project The Long Tail public relations social media</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.melissabalmer.com/storage/HappyExecutives.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1266511971748" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>I had a wonderful breakthrough session with a client earlier this week. We hit the perfect sweet spot path for our future PR efforts together and it felt great. I love it when I have a gut feeling about the way things need to move forward, a client buys into it, and then synchronicity starts to unfold.</p>
<p><strong>About two months ago I asked this client to seriously consider mixing up the tone of her blog, to contemplate sharing more of her warm engaging personality and her own personal journey rather than focusing solely on sharing scientific facts and advice.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I wanted her to begin engaging an emotional hook.<br /></strong></p>
<p>For many of us this sounds easy, but initially she really found it a challenge because it was so outside of the realm of her normal professional writing. Happily she stuck with it and worked out a way to give her blog posts more emotional resonance without writing in a way that made her uncomfortable - and she's already started to receive several compliments from friends and readers on the new tone and<em>, more importantly, increased readership</em>.</p>
<p><strong>Why? My client is absolutely an expert in her field. She is at the top of her profession, but because she's moved from simply informing to sharing her passion she's engaging people in a whole new way.</strong></p>
<p>Don't get me wrong, informing is important, even preaching has its place (sometimes we need strong medicine), but after awhile both can fall on deaf ears. We are emotional creatures who love a good yarn, we get tired of constantly being sold and told in blogs, on Facebook and Twitter and with endless emailers by those who are <em>simply constantly promoting themselves.</em></p>
<p><strong>Remember, we live in a time when information overload is a constant possibility.</strong></p>
<p>And many people confuse constantly posting chatter about what they're doing with the talent to really connect and build viable fans.</p>
<p>Why do we want to be so good at creating our emotional hook and engaging with very specific readers looking for just our type of story telling? <strong>One of the greatest strengths of the Internet (by which I mean Websites, Blogs, Social Media etc.) is using this kind of story telling to create avid fans and economic prosperity for yourself via <a title="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long_Tail" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long_Tail" target="_blank">"The Long Tail."</a></strong></p>
<p>Because of its expansive reach the Internet now allows people the opportunity sell in very niche markets and make very good money from them (note I said opportunity, but you've got to be savvy). For example <strong><a title="http://www.amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a></strong> has certainly opened up writing markets in very specific genres that simply couldn't be sustained by brick and mortar storefront book stores before.</p>
<p>Those who are successfully harnessing the power of the Internet and social media to really grow their businesses are excellent at not only getting the word out about <em>what</em> they do, but <em>how</em> they do what they do, what inspires them to <em>do what they do better</em>, and who is teaching them <em>something new every day</em>.</p>
<p>Let me share with you some examples of what I'm talking about and who I'm personally a fan of:</p>
<p>A book that is on my "must read" list is <strong><a title="http://www.happiness-project.com/" href="http://www.happiness-project.com/" target="_blank">"The Happiness Project"</a></strong> by Gretchin Rubin (@gretchenrubin on Twitter). With a moniker like "Maitriquest" focusing on kindness, of course I'm a sucker for <em>anything </em>about happiness, but Gretchin really hooked me not only by her beautifully orchestrated website and campaign to educate others about her upcoming book (she started the website about a year before the book was published), but also her generosity in how she wanted to share the idea of "a happiness project" with others.</p>
<p>I am also a new fan of writer/author and digital print &amp; self publishing maven <strong><a title="http://www.aprillhamilton.com/about.html" href="http://www.aprillhamilton.com/about.html" target="_blank">April Hamilton</a></strong> who creates <strong><a title="http://www.publetariat.com/about/about" href="http://www.publetariat.com/about/about" target="_blank">Publitariat</a></strong>, a site dedicated to self-publishing, small imprints, explaining the publishing world, and more.</p>
<p>So here's a question for you. How could you personally bring more emotional resonance to your own blogs, tweets and Facebook headlines? What could you say that would leave readers wanting to know more of the story?</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/8/rejecting-the-single-story.html"><rss:title>Rejecting the Single Story</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/2/8/rejecting-the-single-story.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-02-08T22:21:56Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Chimamanda Adichie Public Relations &amp; Marketing Rejecting the Single Story TED TED Long Beach</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.melissabalmer.com/storage/Chimamanda Adichie.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1265668732024" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>This beautiful young woman above is named Chimamanda Adichie and I just found her via the <strong><a title="http://www.ted.com/" href="http://www.ted.com/" target="_blank">TED website</a></strong>. Tomorrow TED opens in my hometown of Long Beach, and like many, I will be proud my city is hosting this extraordinary event and wishing I was on the inside listening to inspiring talks.</p>
<p>But let's go back to Chimamanda. Her talk on TED is called <strong><a title="&lt;!--copy and paste--&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;446&quot; height=&quot;326&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot; /&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;wmode&quot; value=&quot;transparent&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;bgColor&quot; value=&quot;#ffffff&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt; &lt;param name=&quot;flashvars&quot; value=&quot;vu=http://video.ted.com/talks/dynamic/ChimamandaAdichie_2009G-medium.flv&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/ChimamandaAdichie-2009G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=432&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=652&amp;introDuration=16500&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=2000&amp;adKeys=talk=chimamanda_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story;year=2009;theme=master_storytellers;theme=the_creative_spark;theme=words_about_words;theme=new_on_ted_com;theme=speaking_at_tedglobal2009;event=TEDGlobal+2009;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;&quot; /&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf&quot; pluginspace=&quot;http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; wmode=&quot;transparent&quot; bgColor=&quot;#ffffff&quot; width=&quot;446&quot; height=&quot;326&quot; allowFullScreen=&quot;true&quot; flashvars=&quot;vu=http://video.ted.com/talks/dynamic/ChimamandaAdichie_2009G-medium.flv&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/ChimamandaAdichie-2009G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=432&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=652&amp;introDuration=16500&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=2000&amp;adKeys=talk=chimamanda_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story;year=2009;theme=master_storytellers;theme=the_creative_spark;theme=words_about_words;theme=new_on_ted_com;theme=speaking_at_tedglobal2009;event=TEDGlobal+2009;&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;" href="&lt;!--copy and paste--&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;446&quot; height=&quot;326&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot; /&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;wmode&quot; value=&quot;transparent&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;bgColor&quot; value=&quot;#ffffff&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt; &lt;param name=&quot;flashvars&quot; value=&quot;vu=http://video.ted.com/talks/dynamic/ChimamandaAdichie_2009G-medium.flv&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/ChimamandaAdichie-2009G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=432&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=652&amp;introDuration=16500&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=2000&amp;adKeys=talk=chimamanda_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story;year=2009;theme=master_storytellers;theme=the_creative_spark;theme=words_about_words;theme=new_on_ted_com;theme=speaking_at_tedglobal2009;event=TEDGlobal+2009;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;&quot; /&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://video.ted.com/assets/player/swf/EmbedPlayer.swf&quot; pluginspace=&quot;http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; wmode=&quot;transparent&quot; bgColor=&quot;#ffffff&quot; width=&quot;446&quot; height=&quot;326&quot; allowFullScreen=&quot;true&quot; flashvars=&quot;vu=http://video.ted.com/talks/dynamic/ChimamandaAdichie_2009G-medium.flv&amp;su=http://images.ted.com/images/ted/tedindex/embed-posters/ChimamandaAdichie-2009G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=432&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=652&amp;introDuration=16500&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=2000&amp;adKeys=talk=chimamanda_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story;year=2009;theme=master_storytellers;theme=the_creative_spark;theme=words_about_words;theme=new_on_ted_com;theme=speaking_at_tedglobal2009;event=TEDGlobal+2009;&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;" target="_blank">"Rejecting the Single Story"</a></strong> and it's excellent. It's smart, wry, engaging and personal. I hope you'll watch (or you can become a fan of her on <strong><a title="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Chimamanda-Adichie/" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Chimamanda-Adichie/" target="_blank">FB!</a></strong>) And though she is talking about a universal theme in our everyday lives, a habit of looking at a people or a place through just a single lense of a single story and then making up our mind (on very little information), it is also an excellent idea to ponder for your own public relations campaign.</p>
<p><strong>The truth is we can tell a lovely charming story to death.</strong> We can squeeze out all of its juice and interesting bits, we can wear it out - whether it's for a business or a person, a product or an idea. How many of us cringe when we hear a friend or family member bring out that same old story we've heard so many times that we've wanted to yell, "Tell me something different!"</p>
<p>And if we've felt that way, certainly others have felt the same about us, haven't they?</p>
<p>One of the biggest mistakes people make when they attempt public relations on their own is that they try and finagle or force the press into writing about their same old story, again and again. Hey, they wrote that lovely profile on us last year, maybe they'll do it again!</p>
<p>Ah no. Maybe you <em>are</em> the oldest restaurant in town, maybe "so-and-so" <em>has</em> done the most for local charities, or maybe you <em>are</em> #1 in your market. So what? Don't be Johnny one note. Shake it up, look at yourself in new ways, your business, your product, etc. from many angles, and then start sharing different stories. How is what you're doing relevant to what's going on in today's headlines? How are you growing and changing with the times?</p>
<p>There's a very good reason why we ask friends and family, "what's new with you?" when we see them. We like fresh stories, new angles, fresh juice.</p>
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<p>Here is what I'm owning about myself this year in a way that I have never fully done before - I am a story teller. Just about everything I do, from being a publicist, to my side time writing a novel, to spending down time with my friends, is about sharing and absorbing some kind of story that <strong>really means something personally to me</strong>. I have to like clients to promote them, and to come up with creative and useful public relations campaigns. <em>I have to want to tell their story.</em></p>
<p>So here's a short story I'd like to share with you, and it just happens to be one of the most powerful public relations skills you can have in your arsenal: <strong>People will find you more relevant and engaging and useful to them if you share an emotional hook rather than just trumpeting how fabulous you, your goods and your services are.<br /></strong></p>
<p>What do I mean by this? I mean that we no longer live in an age when a successful "expert" is seen as someone who has all of the answers <em>to every aspect of his or her life</em> <em>no matter his or her field of expertise</em>. Indeed, most of us prefer the advice of experts who have fallen down and scraped their knees (just as we have), and then have learned something from it, overcome obstacles, and can get up and share with us the details of how they transformed that particular aspect of their lives.</p>
<p>We would probably still admire Lance Armstrong if he'd won so many races but hadn't experienced cancer, but <strong>it's through the grueling but inspiring story of his recovery that we've not only come to love him, but find him endlessly fascinating, and a motivational life expert</strong>. How many more millions are enchanted by him, watch him, read him, and give to his cancer charity because he's shared his real story? Countless.</p>
<p>The power of an emotional hook in your story telling is useful whether you need to begin writing a blog, a newsletter, give a speech to a local organization, pitch a story about yourself or your goods and services to the media, and just about any time you need to get up and say anything because<strong> as an audience we have little attention for being preached at or sold to, what we want is to be engaged. What we want is for you to tell us a relevant story that might just mirror something in our own lives<em>, </em><em>make us like you more,</em> <em>and think "aha."</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>If your words bring someone an epiphany they'll certainly remember you and spread the word about who you are and what you do.<em><br /></em></strong></p>
<p>While pondering what excellent examples I should share with you (and therefore preach less) on the excellent use of emotional hooks I came across <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/gwenbell" href="http://twitter.com/gwenbell" target="_blank">Gwen Bell</a></strong> (whose Twitter bio reads perfectly: <span class="bio">Discovering the Humanity of Technology in Less Than 140) </span>on <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" href="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" target="_blank">Twitter</a></strong> this morning (one of my favorite to follow there) and caught up on her <strong><a title="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog" href="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog" target="_blank">blogs</a></strong>. Voila two perfect examples were handed to me on the proverbial platter, but more on that in a second. First let me tell you that I have known about Gwen since the Zaadz social platform site, which then became the <strong><a title="http://www.gaia.com/" href="http://www.gaia.com/" target="_blank">Gaia social platform site</a></strong> (where I still occasionally blog). Gosh I've been blogging and involved in social media for a long time (ten years!).</p>
<p>Gwen is a <strong><a title="http://www.gwenbell.com/what-i-do" href="http://www.gwenbell.com/what-i-do" target="_blank">Yoga enthusiast/social media guru &amp; branding expert/enthusiast</a></strong>. And for me she is a truly soulful and mindful example of how to successfully share an emotional hook to engage readers <strong><a title="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog/2010/1/20/the-seeds-of-anger.html" href="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog/2010/1/20/the-seeds-of-anger.html" target="_blank">in a blog</a></strong> (spoiler altert: this particular entry very honest and heartbreaking). So "tada" Gwen is my first example. She never grandstands, she never begs for hankies, but she shares from a place of truth where's she's at and what has happened to her to get to this place.</p>
<p>Gwen is also a great example of how to become successful today, and do what you love, by leading the way in a new industry by sharing your journey to inspire others in authentic, creative, and dynamic ways - but we'll cover that in another blog at another time.</p>
<p>My second example of using emotional hooks in a superb way comes from another of Gwen's blogs. It is titled <strong><a title="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog/2010/2/1/how-good-is-your-digital-tale.html" href="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog/2010/2/1/how-good-is-your-digital-tale.html" target="_blank">"How Good is Your Digital Tale"</a></strong> (isn't that perfect?) and shares a commencement speech one of my favorite authors J.K. Rowling gave at Harvard in 2008. Rowling's speech shows off what a tremendous story teller she is indeed, and how she has used her own early challenges, and her own learning of the horrific challenges of others, to create stories that get to the heart of what is important in the human experience. Those who turn their nose up at the Harry Potter series don't understand that it's true magic is about kindness and love.</p>
<p>I hope you'll take the 20 minutes to watch, but if you don't have the time please remember two of my favorite quotes from it:</p>
<p>"Failure means the stripping away of the inessential." - J.K. Rowling</p>
<p>"What we achieve inwardly will change outer reality." Plutarch</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/1/19/all-amazingly-at-our-fingertips-if-were-ready-to-reach-out.html"><rss:title>All Amazingly at Our Fingertips If We're Ready to Reach Out</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2010/1/19/all-amazingly-at-our-fingertips-if-were-ready-to-reach-out.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-01-19T23:24:52Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Brian Clark Copyblogger Jennifer Louden Seth Godin The Fluent Self Vanit Fair White Hot Truth</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.melissabalmer.com/storage/840590_blog.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1263949837250" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>We are in a huge place of transition right now, and it's making many folks very worried and very unhappy. Many people have seen the way they're used to making their living either infringed upon or completely disappear. People are having to downsize, and make career transitions at times in their lives when they thought they should have very smooth sailing, or would be able to retire early, living on easy street.</p>
<p>And now we have a new reality, and it's hard. It is. I don't want to make light of any of the challenges anyone is facing right now, but the truth is that life guarantees nothing, nada, zip. I'm not saying this to be a downer, but to face a hard truth that many of us pretend isn't the case.</p>
<p>I personally would like very much not to have to deal with chronic fatique and migraines, but they have been a large fact of my life for ten years (smaller fact earlier than that), and I know that many people who deal with both aren't able to work from home as I can, at a job they really love. I would very much like for a lovely friend of mine not to a) have a very challenging cancer and b) to have to work while having this cancer so she can continue to have health coverage. I would like pre-existing conditions to apply to no one, and I'd like decent health care for all.</p>
<p>But we're here to talk about business and innovation. Ahem.</p>
<p>And yet, <strong>there are many who are swimming in this tough economic time, swimmingly beautifully, swan-like, showing the rest of us what's possible in marketing and branding and putting ourselves forward in unique ways now that we have all of this amazing technology at our fingertips</strong> - for very little investment.</p>
<p>Following I'd like to share how a few people I've had the privilege to come across who are using the Internet and other technology to live the life of their dreams:</p>
<p>One of my personal favorites is Havi over at <strong><a title="http://www.fluentself.com/blog/" href="http://www.fluentself.com/blog/" target="_blank">The Fluent Self</a></strong> because she too deals with a chronic health condition and yet her coaching business is soaring, and it's soaring in such a wonderfully creative way, and she gives me courage. I love that every word, every graphic, every seminar speaks to the heart of the matter as to why you might be stuck (isn't that all of us someplace?) from her sharing her own personal story.&nbsp; I also love the gutsy, frank honesty of <strong><a title="http://whitehottruth.com/" href="http://whitehottruth.com/" target="_blank">White Hot Truth</a></strong> with Danielle LaPorte (who just raised her rates thank you), and the mastery of understanding the importance of comfort by the best selling author <strong><a title="http://www.jenniferlouden.com/" href="http://www.jenniferlouden.com/" target="_blank">Jennifer Louden</a></strong>.</p>
<p>The Internet can not only take us all over the world with a few key strokes, but also get our name and expertise out to a larger audience (in a very low cost way) than many of us ever thought possible and it can connect us in some pretty amazing ways. Yes it means you have to update your Internet browswer and operating system more frequently (note, I need to do the operating system thing NOW), yes it means you have to learn how to use new applications, and new software, and a digital camera, and the like, but once you do oh it feels so very good! My business partner and are learning to use <strong><a title="https://www.dropbox.com/" href="https://www.dropbox.com/" target="_blank">Drop Box</a></strong> now - what a joy it will be to have the possibility of having shared folders without our computers being networked!</p>
<p><strong>There are people now monetizing what was thought to be un-monetizable, and if they can do it, well, so can we</strong>. Don't believe me? Let the four year old website <strong><a title="http://www.copyblogger.com/" href="http://www.copyblogger.com/" target="_blank">Copyblogger</a></strong> and its 101,676 email subscribers and 44,000+ twitter followers open your eyes. Founder Brian Clark has hit on a magic combination, he gives away choice information for free, knowing that when you're ready to invest you'll remember how helpful he's been. In 2009 marketing mavin and best selling author <strong><a title="http://www.sethgodin.com/sg/" href="http://www.sethgodin.com/sg/" target="_blank">Seth Godin</a></strong> called Copyblogger #3 of the 100 most influential online marketers in his new book "Lynchpin". <strong><a title="http://www.copyblogger.com/feminine-copywriting/#more-6516" href="http://www.copyblogger.com/feminine-copywriting/#more-6516" target="_blank">This recent entry</a></strong> on the power of using feminine language to sell by guest blogger (note, Brian shares the love and the credit. Smart!) by Lexi Rodrigo is so worth reading!</p>
<p>I am now forever grateful to both twitter and facebook for the connections it makes for me daily. I have almost totally given up watching t.v., something I only rarely enjoy. While <strong><a title="http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/02/twitter-201002" href="http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/02/twitter-201002" target="_blank">Vanity Fair</a></strong> lost a briliant opportunity this month to explain the phenominon to a large articulate audience they instead chose to slide into snarkiness and totally missed the point. If you want to watch twitter feeds about your friends going grocery shopping please feel free, personally, I prefer to follow the leaders on subjects I really care about. <strong>Each time I check my twitter feed I learn something new I really wanted to know</strong>.</p>
<p>I have a friend who was a journalist not too long ago, but rather than bemoaning the state of his industry when he saw the writing on the wall he went about getting his teaching credential, and transitioned into teaching without missing a beat. He now spends his days with smart but "at risk" high school students and can't wait for his day to start. He is so excited to share what he knows with these kids he gets a bit giddy describing them and how proud he is of what they're accomplishing. He also writes <strong><a title="http://www.snoozebuttongeneration.com/" href="http://www.snoozebuttongeneration.com/" target="_blank">a pretty funny blog</a></strong> that has some pretty wry observations about his own gen "x" generation.</p>
<p><strong>We can decide we want to learn and grow and open up to what's new and possible, or we can continue to hold onto the increasingly weak life preserver of our memories on "how it used to be."</strong> And lest you think age is the dividing line I beg to differ. I have no idea how old Intuitive Healer <strong><a title="http://hiroboga.com/" href="http://hiroboga.com/" target="_blank">Hiro Boga</a></strong> is, but I'm pretty sure she's not a gen "y" or gen "xer," and yet she has found a way to use the Internet that feels completely integrity based, compelling and totally modern. Her website is beautiful, her newsletters insightful and a breath of fresh air, and I'm really hoping a reading with her is a gift I can give myself for my birthday next week!</p>
<p><strong>What is so exciting for me as a writer and publicist is the great array of personalization and personality the Internet and all of the new technology allows</strong>. You really can be you at your best. You don't have to use anyone else's format, or template, or color palette. You can certainly be guided by what is working well for others, but then you can be you - beautifully, and if you play your cards right you can make money at it too.</p>
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<p>I've been pondering this over the past few days as I tweak my <strong><a title="http://www.linkedin.com/profile?viewProfile=&amp;key=8600659&amp;locale=en_US&amp;trk=tab_pro" href="http://www.linkedin.com/profile?viewProfile=&amp;key=8600659&amp;locale=en_US&amp;trk=tab_pro" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></strong> profile and finally ask my friends and colleagues for endorsements (not my favorite thing to do, but really, who <em>does</em> find it fun?). I like to give endorsements, but asking for them...well...eeek. But I'm doing it darn it. I want that profile to be complete! So, yes, I've been pondering what I'm proud of and here's what I've come up with:</p>
<p>I'm <em>really</em> proud when my creative ideas come to fruition the way I imagined. The above photo is from the Oct 2006 Long Beach Magazine, which is one of the issues I was proud to be a part of. I found the gorgeous young model <strong><a title="http://www.youtube.com/user/betandwinpanama" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/betandwinpanama" target="_blank">Shane R Duffy</a></strong> (Tough, yes but someone had to do it) and he was the coolest ever to work with (and he was a vet who had been to Afghanistan). The photo was by <strong><a title="http://www.laurenavila.com/" href="http://www.laurenavila.com/" target="_blank">Lauren Avila</a></strong> and make up by <strong><a title="http://www.alieshpierce.com/" href="http://www.alieshpierce.com/" target="_blank">Aliesh Pierce</a></strong>. It was shot on location at Umberto's in Long Beach. We had a lot of fun and I would love the opportunity to work with them all again soon.</p>
<p>I'm also very proud when I can get a client (or a friend) to see themselves and their product and or in a fresh and expanded way...and well, I'm proud when I take decent photos like below!</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 80%;">Me on a 1941 vintage cruiser that I rode in the Belmont Shore Christmas Parade the night before (photo courtesty of Charlie Gandy, our Mobility Coordinator who charmed me into two very fun outings).</span></p>
<p>I don't know about you, but I've forgotten about fun for a long long time.</p>
<p>Oh, I love my work, I love my clients, and my work can be very fun, but fun just for the purpose of fun, just hasn't been in my vocabulary much. And two things led me to realize how much I miss it. About a month ago I took myself off to our local art emporium to splurge on some art supplies - something I hadn't done in years. I wanted create some illustrations for my baby nephew Simon's bedroom (at the time he wasn't even born yet). I hadn't drawn in several years either. I had a marvelous time picking out paints and ink pens, and now I'm having an even more marvelous time putting together the illustrations (thank you to my sister for recommending that "bugs" would be a safe and creative item to draw for a boy's room).</p>
<p>The second thing I did lately that reminded me so much of past fun I want to bring into my life more was riding a bike. My friend Charlie cajoled me into going on a "vintage" bike ride with a group of vintage bike collectors called the <strong><a title="http://cyclonecoaster.com/" href="http://cyclonecoaster.com/" target="_blank">"Cyclone Coasters"</a></strong>. Going in I was a) afraid I might fall off and b) wouldn't be able to accomplish the whole ride (especially not as we were going to ride first in the Belmont Shore Christmas Parade the night before).</p>
<p>And guess what? I did not fall off the bike (a beautiful '41 cruiser kindly provided by Bernard). And I didn't quite finish the entire bike ride. I made it almost the whole way, but bowed out when we were close to home because I could feel I was coming down with the flu. But the point is, it didn't matter. No body cared, and the most important thing is that I had such a good time! I had totally forgotten how much fun it is to ride a bike. How fun it is to feel the sun and the breeze on your face as you speed along seeing your landscape from a totally different perspective. I'm really fortunate that Long Beach is really beautiful by bike.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/12/17/the-challenging-art-of-wordsmithing.html"><rss:title>The Challenging Art of Wordsmithing</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/12/17/the-challenging-art-of-wordsmithing.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-12-17T16:55:06Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Alexa Fleur Alexandra Fleur Ashley Bradford CritiqueIt Ignite Ignite Inc. Public Relations &amp; Marketing good writing the process of writing wordsmithing</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.melissabalmer.com/storage/2378291_blog.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1261072057944" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Unless one actually does it for a living (or is aspiring to do it for a living) people tend to think writing is easy. Ha. Writing, good writing, excellent writing, is actually very hard, and for a very good reason, it has rhythm, purpose and allure. It beguiles, explains and seduces. It entertains - how else can we explain that we humans, very physical beings that we are, can be completely enthralled by a series of squiggles on a page?</p>
<p>My partner Georgia and I have spent the past couple of weeks nose-to-the-wordsmithing-grindstone on a pretty exciting and ambitious project, <strong>Ignite Inc.</strong> and their first product <strong>CritiqueIt</strong>, a tech launch that will literally revolutionize how people create their work. We have been editing the mini business plan (to debut at the holiday party tonight along with a product demo), and doing our best to suss out and bring forward the clearest and most persuasive language our clients have come up with. Fortunately for us Alexa Fleur and Ashley Bradford are very creative, and we had much to work with. Then we added our own polish and twists and terminology until it was one appealing little beast. We wanted readers to think, "oh, I can't wait for this!" and frankly we think we hit it.</p>
<p>It doesn't hurt at all that the CEO of the company, Alexa Fleur, is one super talented graphic designer (take a moment to read her blog about the adventures of a brand new CEO <a title="http://alexafleur.com/?page_id=5" href="http://alexafleur.com/?page_id=5" target="_blank"><strong>here</strong></a> - and yes, that is all her own original art work!) besides being a truly groundbreaking ideator. So the mini not only reads well, and sound enticing, it's all wrapped up in a sexy beautifully designed little package. Sweet.</p>
<p>Now I'm moving onto the company's initial website, trying to call up the magic again. You'd think that since we got the mini down pat it would easier. Ha again. The job now calls for capturing the imagination when attention spans are often at their most fractured. I'm inspired, but restless as I humbly call on the muse for inspiration (dictionary and thesaurus at my fingertips). I will feel like a truly accomplished human being if I ever get a handle on how my own creative process works (all I know is that today a good breakfast out, and a brisk walk are in order).</p>
<p>Curious about what the heck this product actually is? I won't share the website just yet, but here's a very short sweet version on the mini plan as a <strong><a title="http://www.illuminateds.com/test/final1.mov" href="http://www.illuminateds.com/test/final1.mov" target="_blank">movie</a></strong>.</p>
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<p>I was thinking earlier this week how amusing it was to find myself yet in another "transition" phase, finishing up with two clients and jumping into a big new project with another as my new partnership kicks off (and a new website will launch) and then I caught myself and realized, "we're always in transition." We don't actually ever truly <em>arrive</em> anywhere. The plane might land but the world keeps spinning. And I remembered years ago reading in a book on Buddhism about learning to just go with the flow and not trying to grab onto the side of the bank for safety, and thought, "Oh, I finally really <em>get</em> it, it's no use holding on anyway because nothing's safe."</p>
<p>It's easy to fall into the belief system that if we just do "x" everything will be fine, our life will be okay. Alas no. It might accomplish a goal, and be a really nicely accomplished goal at that (like a lovely new website, a complimentary article, gaining a new client, winning an award), but then we look up and realize we still need to finish answering emails, submit another bid, go to the grocery store and buy dinner and on and on. We are always in process and never really arriving.</p>
<p>And that can be unnerving or it can be liberating, depending on how we want to think about it. I used to get really bummed when I created a piece of art work or wrote something and once accomplished didn't think it was any good. I felt it held no real value if it wasn't something I wanted to keep, or give as a gift. I didn't realize that while I was in the process, while I was creating, I was learning all kinds of new things. As I write this I learn something new and have small "aha" moments.</p>
<p>This ability we have as humans to constantly learn and grow is quite astonishing and something I'm very grateful for. Now I'm moving forth to learn about all things tech and social media and the very first thing that has struck me as I start to read <strong><a title="http://www.techcrunch.com/" href="http://www.techcrunch.com/" target="_blank">Techcrunch</a></strong> and <strong><a title="http://adage.com/" href="http://adage.com/" target="_blank">AdAge</a></strong> and <strong><a title="http://www.fastcompany.com" href="http://www.fastcompany.com" target="_blank">Fast Company</a></strong> daily is how elegant and creative not only the writing so often is, but <em>the thinking behind it</em>.. I'm a bit dazzled, and tremendously grateful to be a fly on the wall. If anything is going to move us beyond our current downturn and our challenges with the planet's limited resources it's elegant and creative thinking.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/11/24/what-im-thankful-for-balance-adventure-relaxtion-oh-my.html"><rss:title>What I'm Thankful for? Balance, Adventure &amp; Relaxtion Oh My!</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.melissabalmer.com/connecting-blog/2009/11/24/what-im-thankful-for-balance-adventure-relaxtion-oh-my.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Melissa Balmer</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-11-24T18:59:07Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Ad Age Method Public Relations &amp; Marketing Susan Dopart Twitter</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Happy Thanksgiving week!</p>
<p>So here I am on my own blog after, what, two months away? Yikes. It has been a whirlwind over the past few months but you know what? So what. I knew what I was doing when I started spinning faster and faster and getting on a trying too hard jag. I knew it and I did it anyway, I knew it was bad for me, my creativity and ultimately my productivity because like many of us I still carry around that idea that if <em>I work harder, more, and anticipate other's needs I'm a better person.</em></p>
<p>But last week a two and a half day migraine I got it, I heard it, and I slowed down. And then I ran into someone who told me that they always look for ways to bring "balance, adventure and relaxation" into their life and I thought, um, wow. Wow. Balance, oh sure, I always chatter along about balance and my need for it, but adventure and relaxation too? What a combo. What a joyous combo. What an idea for 2010! I'm completely smitten with this idea, more of which I will share in a moment...</p>
<p>But before that I have to share two epiphanies I had yesterday - most publicists will tell you there's no way to guarantee press, there are best practices you can incorporate to encourage it, but guarantee, no. And I follow this, I don't promise press, but what I have done instead is felt responsible for my client's success, no matter how well they're following my recommendations. It's a guilt I've carried over from my year's as a sales rep and you know what, I'm doing my best here and now to let it go. I'm also doing my best to <em>not</em> overwork things (a favorite pastime) because I finally get that it doesn't always make people feel like they've got a superhero on their team, it makes them feel stressed, stretched, and overwhelmed - especially when you are asking things of them (and asking again and again) that they just aren't used to doing.</p>
<p>Publicists like to know better, we do, but sometimes we need to chill and remember that for many hiring a publicist is an emotional experience that pokes at people's hidden fears and secret dark corners. Sometimes we need to learn to tread lightly and be okay with clients moving at baby steps.</p>
<p>With that being said, which makes me feel much better, I'd like to go back to the topic of balance, adventure and relaxation. Actually I'm going to ignore balance and relaxation today and focus on adventure. I have the privilege now of working on a tech startup. More will be revealed as we go, but I am super excited about becoming a green-tech-innovation-creativity junkie. I am having a great time on <strong><a title="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" href="http://twitter.com/maitriquest" target="_blank">twitter</a></strong>, finding articles like <strong><a title="http://adage.com/digital/article?article_id=140678" href="http://adage.com/digital/article?article_id=140678" target="_blank">this one on Ad Age</a></strong> (just as I love becoming a nutrition and wellness junkie for <strong><a title="http://www.susandopart.com" href="http://www.susandopart.com" target="_blank">Susan Dopart, M.S., R.D.</a></strong>) and the possibility that next year I could be jet setting off to <strong><a title="http://idea2009.com/" href="http://idea2009.com/" target="_blank">interesting conferences</a></strong> or just going to the West Side for <strong><a title="http://twiistup7.eventbrite.com/" href="http://twiistup7.eventbrite.com/" target="_blank">Twiistup</a></strong>. Maybe I can rub elbows with cute innovators like Adam Lowry and Eric Ryan of <strong><a title="http://www.methodhome.com/" href="http://www.methodhome.com/" target="_blank">Method</a></strong>, and maybe I can even go to Copenhagen and research bike culture and um, Elves (for my novel, but it's a long story so I won't bore you).</p>
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